Navigating the topsy-turvy world of Relationships
This blog was written exactly 3 years ago, during which time my own personal experience has evolved. Therefore, I have updated the content so that it is aligned with my current awareness and experience. Revision date: 10 October 2025
If we put our faces up too close to an object, we can’t view it properly; it is skewed and out of focus, and we can only see a part of it. We would have to move further away from the object in order to see any detail. But when we take that step back, we can view the object in all its glory; we can see the whole package, exactly what is in front of us.
Sometimes we need to take a step back in order to see things clearly.
This applies particularly with relationships.
When we are too close to a situation, mentally and emotionally, we see only that which is immediately in front of us - often what we expect to see, which means we only really see what we perceive it to be in that skewed, out of focus viewpoint. Taking that important step away from the situation can give us a bigger picture of what we have in front of us, and this is when we can really see it and appreciate it for what it is.
Having a tarot reading based on your current relationship allows you to distance yourself from the immediate emotional core, presenting you instead with an impartial and honest view of your relationship, your place within it and its long term potential.
The following tarot readings can help you to view your relationship from a new state of awareness:
Relationship Perspective
Twin Flame Journey to Alignment
Celtic Cross
Is it suitable for you? Yes, if you are in a current relationship and wish to understand yourself and your partner better, and ascertain your long term potential.
What it shows: This tarot reading shows your current personal focus and that of your partner. You will see confirmation of immediate priorities and concerns, external circumstances that may be impacting your relationship, and guidance on overcoming any difficulties. It also explores your relationship together, identifying your strengths and weaknesses as a couple. Finally, there is an outcome card for the relationship itself.
Benefits: It can result in a deeper understanding of your partner and what is going on with them, issues they may not currently be sharing with you. It can also increase your awareness of your own needs and priorities, and how this is in turn may be impacting the relationship. Awareness at this level can help to build a stronger, healthier relationship with long term potential.
Is it suitable for you? This reading is ideal if you believe you are currently experiencing a spiritual twin flame soul connection, particularly in the stages before union. This is often the most challenging and painful of journeys, when self-doubt really kicks in for the twin who is more spiritually aware of what is happening, but often without the validation to cement their sense of knowing.
If you are already in a relationship with someone who you believe to be your twin flame, you may wish instead to consider the Relationship Perspective reading, which will look into your connection together, and how you work as a team.
What it shows: The very nature of a twin flame connection is far from straight forward. In my experience, a simple relationship spread doesn’t fully get to the heart of the matter. Therefore I designed this reading with a view to delving in deep from the start. It shows, in detail, what is going on with your twin, and what is going on in your own world – and these elements are not as obvious as you’d expect.
From your twin’s perspective, it will highlight what they are currently telling themselves, their external factors, and the truth - what they really feel underneath all the blustering and distractions of everyday life. You are only going to be shown here what is beneficial to know for your own journey. Often, what is revealed about your twin is actually what you already know yourself, from your own intuition or inner knowing. For you, your perspective should reaffirm your own beliefs and how you may have evolved through the connection, the signs and synchronicities that you pick up around you and from your twin, your own current external circumstances, and guidance for reflections and inner work in order to move you forward. Any triggers that you are currently avoiding may show up here as well, as little nudges.
The final card from each perspective shows the current status of your individual journey to union – and, trust me, this can be a bit of an eye-opener! For your twin, this card is dependent on their current behaviours and attitude and to their current external circumstances. For you, this will reveal if you aren’t as ready as you believe you are; the truth of your current status.
As the person requesting the reading, it is typical that you will be the one more open to the connection and spiritually aware and therefore you are the one who is naturally more aligned to seek the truth of the eventual outcome. If union is the desired outcome, and that outcome is apparent in the reading, it can be reached with a continuation of the inner work that you are both making on your individual journeys.
Benefits: This in-depth tarot reading is aimed at helping you to navigate what is initially a difficult situation to comprehend, and which can often develop into a long, complex and confusing journey – particularly as it may be hard to share your experiences with others. It aims to give some clarification to the connection, whilst reinforcing your own internal beliefs against the contradictory signs you may be receiving from the outside. There are always two sides to every story of course; by offering the perspective and current circumstances of your twin, this reading can provide balance, clarity and peace of mind. It is hoped through this reading that you will identify the voice of your Higher Self and learn to trust your own intuition and feelings, allowing them to guide you going forward.
Is it suitable for you? Yes, if you are confused about a current relationship, or a situation within your relationship, and you seek more clarity and an idea of where it is heading on its current course.
What it shows: This tarot reading will show the situation, which I can determine from your energy is the uppermost on your mind at the time of the reading, and the likely outcome. If you currently feel confused, the cards can help you to see the truth in front of you - and sometimes painfully so! The Celtic Cross can also be used to answer a specific question about your relationship. There is an overall outcome card, but that card manifesting into your reality is fully dependent on the decisions that you make as you follow your path. Remember also that you have the ability to alter the outcome if it is not as desired.
Benefits: The reading can provide an honest and impartial view into your relationship, which will increase your awareness of any sticking point within it, your own contribution to the situation, and how you can utilise skills and lessons learnt previously to influence the outcome so that it is as desired.
These tarot readings will enable you to dig deep into any concerns you may have, and equip you with the tools needed in order to ensure you benefit from a healthy, fulfilling relationship!
